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I am in LOVE with my coworker
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Posted 5 months ago How should I handle this? I haven't told him yet and I am nervous that nothing will come of it and thigns will become awkward at work. Or if it does become something - will I jeopardize my career? |
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| Posted 5 months ago I would talk with your boss and make sure they are cool with it - than I would go for it. If your boss isn't cool with it - than I WOULD NOT do anything to harm your career. |
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| Posted 5 months ago ...My problem is worse...I am in love with my boss!! And he's married!! |
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| Posted 5 months ago Don't do it!!! |
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| Posted 5 months ago what are you going to do if you guys hook up then leave eachother would you be able to look at him?????? |
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| Posted 5 months ago I worked with a boyfriend for a while in college - it was just a part-time job, but I ended up getting sick of him because we saw each other all the time. Plus, he would get CRAZY jealous if anyone tried to flirt with me (this was a restaurant job) or a got a good tip. Should have been a warning sign, now that I think of it... |
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| Posted 4 months ago I would not do it at least not while you work with him. |
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| Posted 4 months ago ME PERSONALLY I WOULDN'T DO IT, THATS JUST TO MUCH TENSION ON THE JOB ,WHAT IF YOU GUYS BREAK UP, OR COME TO WORK MAD AT EACH OTHER , I'M PRETTY SURE BEING AROUND A PERSON YOURE DATING ALL THE TIME IS NEVER GOOD. IF I WERE YOU I'LL THINK SERIOUSLY ABOUT IT FIRST . |
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| Posted 4 months ago My advice would be definately do not do this. Most work places frown of this sort of practice. Work should stay work not turn ibto some Peyton Place or mini-soap opera. Most relationships never end on good terms, so you may be infatuated now but think of the long term effects on your career. Good Luck whatever avenue you choose. |
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| Posted 2 months ago All's well that ends well, but as all above have already stated, this sort of thing never ends well. |
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| Posted 2 months ago Don't do it, if he is married and willing to see you, he would also be willing to see someone else |
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| Posted about 1 month ago If your at work, your at work, think about it. How are you going to maintained a professional relationship. Get serious. You have to weigh one against the other, is it just infatuation? Is he the guy that everyone is hot over, been there done that. Make him a friend, It's much better, and it last's forever.
Your boss and he's married,! What if he was your husband? How would you feel? You reap what you sow. That's all I have to say about that. If he does it with you, he'll do it it with another, and what would you want with a man like that anyway? |
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| Posted about 1 month ago Thanks for all the advice. Just to clear something up...he's NOT my boss and he's NOT married. Not sure how that rumor started hahaha We recently talked about our feelings for one another and decied that we shouldn't pursue anything. Too risky. If one day we are both single and not working together, maybe we will go for it. Thanks again, everyone! |
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| Posted about 1 month ago How can you be "in love" with someone if you haven't had any sort of emotional relationship with them? Keep your drawers on, your mouth shut, and keep it in your dreams. Don't even think of telling your "best friend" because rumors get started, people hear parts of a conversation and run with it, and your job goes down the drain. Most institutions have policies against coworkers dating, especially on the same unit. |
