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I have just went back to school to train for medical assisting.  My goal is to in the next 6 years somehow gain a degree and become a Physicians Assistant.  This almost seems impossible to me.  How am I going to work and do all of this??  How??????????

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Don't worry - you can do it! Are you going to school full time or part-time? Have you considered taking classes online? Because medical assisting is usually an hourly job, it is very likely that you will be able to work and go to school at the same time. This way you won't have to sacrifice your job and you will gain experience at the same time.


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I am in school full time evenings.  I am starting to feel bombarded and thinking that I am just too old to pull this off.  I am taking my SAT practice test this November!!!!!    Maybe I am being silly.


 

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Hi, I just turned 47 and earned a BS last year. I had an AA and an AS, but thought it was holding me back in my career. I started out taking 2 classes at a time, but near the end I took 3. I did most of it online, which is GREAT! I thought I was too old, but then I thought in 5 years from now I would have my degree and the 5 years is going to pass whether I do it or not. I highly recommend online classes. My husband, a RN, is going for his masters online now and he's 49.

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I hear ya.  I have thought the same thing.  The time will pass whether I do this or not.  Hahaha- just want to be alive when I get there.  Thanks!!

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You can do it! I just went back to school this Fall I am pursuing my Masters Degree and I am 44. Before you know it you will be finished with your classes and you will be so glad you did it.


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How did you do it??  How many classes did you take at one time??  My dilemma is that in order for me to deffer my payments from this school loan, I have to stay in school and I have to be a full-time student to obtain another loan.  And, I need to work at the same time. I shudder when I think what is ahead of me.

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Hey, no matter what age you are when you make the decision, you will only regret it if you don't.  More than half of test performance is how stressed you are when you take it, so when you go to take the SAT test just take what you've learned, forget how freaked out you are about going back and rock the house.  Then go home and get some sleep because worrying about it afterward won't help either.  . . .   I particularly agree with the statement made earlier in the thread about time passing no matter what you do with it.  I just finaly got myself into the hospital based side of healthcare after futzing around for the last ten years deliberately trying to avoid my gut instinct to try to go to med school.  For that matter, I'm still futzing around, because my next goal is to earn enough money and go to PA school after which I will be attempting to obtain a position as a Radiology PA.  . . .  But, if the position is not one that I can find easily, or if I find it, and still don't feel satisfied with the amount of information, care, and comfort I can give to my patients with that much position, then I will be left with only one option once again which is med school. . . . .   Why don't I just go now?  I don't know. . .  because I feel that if I can obtain what I want with two years extra schooling then why sign up for 8-10 years extra now.  But if in 2 years I'm not totaly satisfied, then another 8-10 won't look half as bad since I'll have most of the coursework for it memorized already, and I'll be kickin' those little kids buts on the tests. . . . (more likely I'll just do fine since that whole brain cell/ youth thing works in the other direction)...  but I will certainly be able to compete for the hi-middle if not the top.   .. .. ..  Trust in yourself.  you know what you want now, and therefore are going to be focused.  Age is not a problem, and time would be a problem no matter what your age, so it will just be something you learn to manage. .. .. ..  Keep it up.

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Well thank you very much for the encouragement.  I will keep myself going.  It's only right around the corner.  I can feel it!!!

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Hi, I hope I can encourage you.  I am 56 years old.  I never went to college because all I wanted was to have a family and I was fortunate to be able to be a stay-at-home mom until my youngest was 5 years old.  That was in 1985, and I started working as a medical transcriptionist.  My boss handed me a huge medical book, and told me to start learning the terms.  I also had never even heard of a "word processor", which back then was the new technology.  I have been a medical transcriptionist for 23 years.  I now work in a physical medicine department of a hospital.  I decided I could not sit 8 hours a day at a computer and type for another 15 years, or I would go crazy!  I decided I wanted to be an occupational therapy assistant, and hopefully get with a contract company and travel.  So I checked into it and found out it was a 2 year program, but I needed to have my basics out of the way first.  Then I found out I had to take an ACT test before I could enter college.  Mind you, I had not been in a school since 1970!  But I took the ACT, made 23, which isn't too bad, and now I am in my first year in OTA school.  I work full time, raise two grandchildren, and have kept a 4.0 grade average.  All this being said, I could not have done any of it without my husband, who is so proud of me and has taken over most of my "household" duties, including cooking!  I don't know if you are married, but if you're not, get with a good friend or close relative and get a good support system for yourself.  It makes a lot of difference.  I have worked with a girl who is now 38 and talked her into doing this with me.  She also has family, work, etc., and her husband is not quite as supportive as he could be, but she still maintained a 4.0.  She and I study together and help each other out as much as possible.  And like the post before, time will pass anyway, so you might as well not waste your time as I did and do it  now!  Good luck to you, and if I can encourage you in any way I will. 

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That's what I want to hear!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  Thank you so much for your reply.  It is good to hear that, especially women, are doing it.  I admit that I feel overwhelmed, but my plate is not at big as yours.  I have no kids, but do have a supportive husband.  After reading your response, I really, REALLY, began to think that I am really going to make it.  Thanks again!!!  God Bless YOU

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Hi there, Almost 40,  I'll be 60 in December!!! 


After working 14 years for the same people, moving to accommodate my work and save on gas (they did not help with driving expenses), getting fired the next week, getting my new place broken into the next week, getting my identity stolen and my monies depleted the next week - what else could possibly happen? - It rained. I cried.  Then I enrolled in a Medical Assisting program.  What the heck?  I've been blessed to still be around, I have 40 years on the oldest person in my class and we keep each other challenged, positive and alive.   There will always be someone sick; there will always be someone needing care; there will always be doctors who need to be around real people, like us, who need to be needed too but are training to help out the right way.  Age is another number society has thrown at us.   The world is a truly wonderfully big yet ever so small place.  We can all have a piece of joy in this magnificent place!!  Stay encouraged,  Almost 40.  Stay up!!


Let's do this!! 

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Thank you so much almost 60.  Like I stated before, I am so encourged and a little surprised by the amount of people striving, like me, to get up and take charge.   To better our lives.  I guess it really doesn 't matter what age you reach.  Hopefully, whether in class or not, you are still learning.

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You can make it through school.  My experience is, though, after 40 jobs start drying up.  You can often find work as a home health care provider...for minimum wage.  It is very hard.  I made it almost all the way through the RN program.  My marriage didn't survive nursing school...I was in my late forties by that time and couldn't find a job, couldn't afford tuition, couldn't finish.  My next job was at minimum wage as a homecare person.  I was badly injured on the job, got retrained to be a phlebotomist.  Now, after thirty plus years of experience and continuing medical education, this University graduate, who has kept up with the changing times in medicine, has a state phlebotomy license (for over two years) is still unemployed.  I'm bright, attractive, articulate, almost sixty with no retirement funding -- maybe not so bright, and can't find work.  The older I get the more I see my job prospects evaporating before my eyes.  I'm terrified!  So at almost forty, buckle down and do it!  If I didn't enjoy keeping my mind active and learning more and more about medicine, the body human is fascinating and miraculous, I give up and find an ice floe to take a hike on...  Now is always the best time to take that first step.  Good luck to you!

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Hey, I am 53 and in LPN school right now!! It is hard and I work a family around it. But, it is a life long dream and I am going to do it. I do not want to stop at this level. I am looking to go on to a higher degree - just not sure what direction yet. You are never to OLD for learning but I do find it harder to remember things so I know I have to spend that much more time. Oh well, what is life for if not to follow your dreams. I am only hoping that the employment opportunities will be there for me and my age will not be a hurdle to get over!

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Wow - you ladies are a great encouragement !!!!       I - too - am 56, and just think about going back to school and getting


further education in my XRay field.    I am a Radiologic Tech, which I got at age 33, single mom.     It was the hardest 2 years


of my life.     Now, my kids, (mine and stepchildren) are all grown, and I know I will be working for at least 10 more yrs and


would like to further my career, and of course, my $$$.     I have checked on Radiation, Ultra Sound, CT, MRI, there are no


schools close by, (Small town, central USA) and I feel kind of stuck)


We should all further ourselves and I highly recommend the Medical Fields, there will always be jobs !!!!!


Good Luck to all and WE CAN DO IT !!!!!!!        Does anyone know of Radiation Therapy schools (that are affordable, and


that I could keep my day job????)

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I'm 59, don't know what I want to do next, but all these stories are so encouraging/inspiring!

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I am not sure of radiologic schools.  You probably just have to start contacting schools and see what they are offering.  I am glad that you are continuing education.  It is real important these days--no matter what age.

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Hi, I was reading my email and I opened "allhealthcare" and started browsing the articles. I noticed the group discussion for mature people like us. I am 56, finishing my B.S.N. in May. I graduated from an ADN program at the age of 30. So I have been a R.N. since 1982. I went to school the first time with four kids still home and a husband who worked various shifts and often far from home, he is an operating engineer so he goes where ever the Union sends him. Those two years were the hardest in my life but I kept encouraging myself. I graduated with good grades and passed the NCLEX without any problem. I worked as soon as I got out of college and was told by my administrator that I "looked like I would do well in the ER" when I had just told her I wanted to work in O.B. I never knew what she meant by saying I would look like I would do well in ER but that's where I started my nursing career. I never have got to work in the O.B. After 5 years seeing so many dead people and tragedies, I decided to transfer to Rehab where I could witness positive results after serious injuries and disabling accidents and diseases. I worked there as a manager for 16 years but the physical aspect of the job; lifting heavy patients 4-6 times a shift per patient finally took its toll. I started suffering from numerous broken bones and finally the disc in my spine became deteriorated requiring surgery so I resigned. It took a while to recover, in fact I never have healed . I required another back surgery, this time two discs were repaired. But the pain has not ceased. While I recovering from my first back surgery, my 26 year old daughter died from unknown causes. Due to enduring depression and continuing back pain, I did not go back to work for 2 years. I did take a course for Sexual Assault Nurse Examiner and began doing rape exams. I also took a Forensic Nursing Certificate program from Kaplan College online. Then I started part time jobs in ER in two different towns, but they didn't work out.They were mostly young nurses who had attitudes. I think it was then I thought that my age and maturity made a difference in certain areas of nursing . The last two years I worked as a Director of Nursing in a little Nursing Home in the town I live. That was a very stressful job. There is so many unqualified employees, not to mention the lack of "ethical" conduct. I tried everything to teach them skills which would make them feel more confident and increase their self esteem. I encouraged them to consider nursing school in order to make a good living and be able to take care of their children in a way they could be proud.



This is a very lengthy response to your concern, but since I am new, I hope you feel free to ask for advice from someone who is not afraid of challenging new paths as I become older. I thank God for keeping me active and able to make changes that I feel important.


Please face your uncertainty and as they say in the commercial "Just Do It"


                                                                                                                    Your new friend, RAYDELLE


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I'm 54 and felt the need to drop my MA's license due to the fact that I can't do phlebotomy.  They won't let you in a nursing home unless you're an NA.  I like people, helping them, and realize that my resume has to change with the times.  There used to be a time when all you had to do is list your work duties.  I've been in retail for over 10 years, 8 years as a National Certified Medical Assistant, and am looking for another job because my husband was fired from his job and fears that the one he gets will be less per hour than the one he used to work for.

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My sister,You can make it!Keep on keeping on; have courage enough to accept what you can not change, but yet courageous enough to stand up and fight for what you can.

I believe there is something in front you;in your future that U will embrace with my two little arms and U will be so thankful to the Almighty for allowing U thus(that) far!