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Emotional tips and tricks for staying the course and support for believing you really can get the job that's right for you...

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I have been unemployed at various times in my life and have supported friends during their jobless times so I know how tough it can be to keep your emotional balance when you're navigating choppy waters.

How have you coped or how are you coping when you don't know what the future holds? What's floating your boat? Is is exercise? Friends? Family? Nature?

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I have never been unemployed before and am finding it extremely difficult to feel stable with a family to take care of...I just pray to find the right position off of nights soon!!

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What are you doing to cope? And how is the job search going?

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The only thing that makes me feel better, is proactively applying for jobs. Looking for them. I have to do it everyday, otherwise I feel very nervous. I ask friends to review cover letters, resume etc. I do think adding the family factor in will increase your stress. I found it less stressful when I was single. Now I have more obligations and being jobless feels tens folds worse. Best of luck to all on the hunt!

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I would also say jobhunting can be a fun process. You learn a lot about new employers and what's happening that you didn't know about before.

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I am having a hard time finding a job because I have been out of the job market for 9 years. This is all brand new to me. My scores are good. I graduated with a 88 GPA for medical coding. However now I have to sell myself and pray that someone will give me a chance to prove myself. I know I can do the work it is just a matter of when.

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Pam_Strayer said:

I have been unemployed at various times in my life and have supported friends during their jobless times so I know how tough it can be to keep your emotional balance when you're navigating choppy waters.

How have you coped or how are you coping when you don't know what the future holds? What's floating your boat? Is is exercise? Friends? Family? Nature?

I know there are people out there that don't like bringing this up, but all I need to get my though--is focusing on GOD. I am not a finatic but find he has keep me going when I thought all was lost. Take one step at a time and if that is to hard take a moment at a time, he will bring you through. Keep plugging along, putting in those resumes, I know he allowed this to happen because there is something better out there for me.

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Sherindrsn brings up a good point. I consider myself an agnostic, but I would say that having faith in something is important for getting through the tough times - whether it's in another person, in humanity, in some sort of god - it's important to have that kind of relationship to help put things in perspective.

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I've been on "The Job Hunt" for only 3 weeks now and I feel as though I have been beat down. Everyday ( Monday through Friday), I'm online doing applications to all hospitals within the Tampa Bay area and the most I get back is "we'll get back with you". Talk about frustration ! Anyone have any suggestions ?

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Being pro-active is definitely the best thing you can do! It's so frustrating when you don't get a concrete answer back. You might want to try...Setting up informational interviews with people who already have the job you want. Call and ask if you can talk about what sort of qualifications and characteristics that job requires. Even if it isn't a formal interview, you can practice your interview skills and make connections for the future.


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I agree with Imalea and Ritawalters, I have been out of work for 4 yrs so I have that going against me and also working day in and day out makes you feel like you been beaten. It's hard not to loose self esteme. Even though I do believe in the job will come when it's suppose to and that God is watching over me, sometimes it just is hard to grasp the consept. I have been out of work for almost 8 months. But I know if I'm patient and just keep trying it will come.

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I agree with everyone as far as feeling alot of difficulties in their search for employment. At times it can seem very gleam, but with the persistent of applying whenever a position  becomes available. Even when there are more qualified applicant seeking that position as well as the inexperienced someone will give us a break. Having faith is very good!

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Job hunting can be tough, you need moral support and a network of people to assist in sending out the word.  I was told that 1/3 of the applications on the Internet were filled through the employers process and independently (along with a great resume/cover letter/ follow-up to each and every phase of the process).  The other 2/3rds of those employed were doing it because of contacts in the field and networking.  Also advised that you should never try and put one person on the spot when networking...ask that they contact their contacts and assist......... That's how it works the best...and it did.... lots of phone calls to people to run a resume into HR, or make a phone call in your behalf.. tried and true, locate the job then find a way in through networking.  Changing Internet applications to Job opportunities available and networking, all day on the phone...back and forth keeping the ball in the air seems to have proved itself.  Also advised that when a person becomes unemployed and starts looking for work - on average it takes roughly 1 month for every $10K dollars.. Naturally experience and a strong network can and will offset that and bring in a faster return.  Hope this helps, advice given to me and I worked all angles and found networking is the BEST way to find employment.  Good Luck !

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A few kind and perhaps helpful words from a healthcare recruiter.   The process of job hunting is a job.  Approach it in that manner.  Get up every morning, get dressed and plan your day.  Set goals for each day.  So many online applications, so many phone calls to network with other people you know in your specialty, contact recruiters.  Ok morning is gone,  have lunch with someone in the medical field who might know of something.  Lunch over - back to your job.  Take the list of facilities in the area where you want to work.  Go to their websites and review career opportunities.  Take a little time to refine and target the resume to focus on the job requirements, write a short cover letter and include your salary history or asking salary range.  Do some out of the box thinking about where your skills might fit outside of the obvious.  As a medical professional consider that many large corporations have employee assistance program medical professionals on staff as well as nurses.  Is it 3:00 yet?  If so take a break, pick up the kids or take the dog for a walk.  Break over - back to your job of finding a job.  5:00 o'clock.  Day complete.  A little overtime checking the job sites in the evening and planning your day tomorrow.  If you apply for a position and hear nothing, send a nice email and another copy of your CV indicating that you are still available and interested so you stay at the top of the candidate pool.  Hope this helps a bit.  Happy to answer any specific questions if i can.

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Great advice, Prosearch!


Georgia Price
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